Confidence can go a long way. Whether it persuades your boss to give you the pay rise you deserve or gets the girl of your dreams to go on a date with you, confidence is invaluable. And being self-assured in general can affect your performance in the bedroom too. When you’re confident, you can act sexier and do wilder things that’ll blow both of your minds.
Even the most confident of us suffer dips in esteem. When this happens at crucial points, it can have very negative effects on us and leave us feeling humiliated and drained of confidence. When this happens in the bedroom, it’s the ideal breeding ground for anxiety which can affect performance and cause you to avoid sex all together.
Getting a London lingam massage can help build that confidence up to levels you didn’t think could ever be achieved. The lingam massage is a special erotic massage that’s just for men. Men suffer just as many dips in confidence as women, often fretting over their sexual performance, worrying about finishing too early or not being able to get it on at all. You may or may not know but a London lingam massage is a fantastic way to boost your sex drive, reduce the chances of premature ejaculation and overall, increase your self-esteem when it comes to intimacy.
Here are some of the ways a lingam massage can make you a better lover…
- Prevents premature ejaculation
Premature ejaculation is a common worry for men which can create great anxiety. The more you think about it, the more likely it is to happen and this can sour and put strain on a relationship. A lingam massage is a special form of sensual massage which has roots in tantra. It is essentially a massage of the penis. The masseuse uses a series of intimate and highly sensual techniques that are designed to slowly arouse the man and keep him on the edge of orgasm. It’s exquisitely pleasurable and the eventual release encourages total mental relaxation.
A London lingam massage expands the boundaries of pleasure. Special techniques are used to slowly build sensation and energy throughout your body. You will feel more than pleasure in your sexual areas – you will feel this extend throughout your body and your mind, familiarising you with your point of climax. This increased self-control will delay orgasm, helping you last longer, but you’ll still feel the same amount of pleasure.
- Helps with erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety
Premature ejaculation and performance anxiety often come together. And when you are anxious about lovemaking, this may even cause erectile dysfunction because you’re thinking about it too much.
Viagra can be used to treat erectile dysfunction, and while it is effective in a physical way, it only treats the symptoms and not the cause. The lingam massage technique directly targets the cause – of your anxiety. Its special techniques help to improve your confidence and show you how to become a more skillful lover.
- Promotes longer lovemaking
On average, women take 20 minutes to orgasm while men take between two and seven minutes. Unsurprisingly, this can often lead to disappointment, often from the woman’s side, and this causes the man to become anxious and self-conscious about his performance. During a London lingam massage the masseuses uses tantric massage elements that work to exercise the mind to fight against orgasm. The masseuse will take you to the edge of orgasm and back again multiple times, so you have no choice but to practise self-control.
When you have control over your sexual responses, you can voluntarily slow yourself down and give your partner more time to reach climax. She will find it more satisfying which in turn, satisfies you and makes for a more intense lovemaking session overall.
Try a London Lingam Massage Today!
A lingam massage may be a massage of the penis, but it’s really not as sleazy as it sounds. It’s extremely therapeutic and a great form of sex therapy as it balances sexual stimulation with mental control. You’ll become a better lover with a stronger understanding of intimacy and knowledge of new, creative ways to engage with your partner on a spiritual level. This new-found confidence will be obvious in your daily life as well as in your sexual. Try a London lingam massage with us, today and see what it can do for you! simply